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  • Sexism, our community, and our genre

    This week, we denizens of the Night Bazaar are invited to consider sexism in the science fiction/fantasy/horror/comics/whatever community and the genre of the fantastic itself. It’s further suggested we contemplate sexual harassment at conventions, the suggestion that provocatively clad female cosplayers aren’t true geeks, and the sexist content or lack of same in our own work and that of others.

    I find this task daunting because I don’t know how to cleverly discuss the three subtopics in relation to one another to demonstrate a single underlying truth. I can kick each of them around a little, but if the following lacks the unity a good essay should have, I ask your indulgence.

    I haven’t witnessed sexual harassment at a con in a while, but I don’t doubt it still occurs. In my opinion (and this may shock you), it’s bad.

    In fact, it’s bad enough that no convention committee worth a damn will allow it to continue if they know it’s going on. (If they do, they need to be replaced, or we need not to patronize the event they run anymore.) Thus, I encourage anyone who’s the target of harassment to report the situation to convention registration or security. Don’t let some asshole ruin your good time.

    But I don’t mean to put the whole burden of stopping harassment on convention staff. Any attendee who witnesses harassment can intervene, although I recommend tact and the support of likeminded souls over any approach you may have seen in a Jason Statham movie.

    As I hope you gleaned from the above, I take the issue of sexual harassment seriously. That sets it apart from the cosplay controversy, which is stupid.

    In last week’s post, I referenced John Scalzi’s comment that a geek is anyone who chooses to define him- or herself that way. If we accept this premise (and it strikes me as pure snobbery not to), then the idea that a female cosplayer or anybody else knocking around fandom is a fake geek becomes nonsensical.

    But actually, there’s more (albeit, nothing that’s more sensible) to this particular issue.

    Besides doubting whether the women in question are genuine 100% honest-to-Gernsback geeks, their detractors decry the fact that they wear tight or skimpy outfits, and as a result, male fans look at them with appreciative eyes. Presumably, this is deemed deplorable because someone is supposedly being exploited or hurt. Why else would anybody care?

    But I don’t see the exploitation or harm. To me, this just looks like a fannish instance of normal human behavior. A con is a big party for our clan, women commonly try to look attractive at parties, and guys enjoy the view.

    Is that horrible? Surely, only if sexuality itself is dangerous and/or disgusting. In my judgment (and again, this may shock you), it isn’t.

    Well, then, does the behavior somehow become horrible when geeks are involved? Only if our community is made up of psychological defectives at risk of flipping out over something the rest of society takes in stride. And it’s not. There’s a smidgen of truth in the stereotype of the socially awkward geek, but relatively few of us make the sexual predator watch list or jump out of high windows upon glimpsing cleavage.

    But even though we don’t, perhaps it’s still worth taking a critical look at the genre of the fantastic as novelists, filmmakers, comic book creators, etc., work in it today. Is there content that might influence the audience to view sexual harassment as acceptable or to go nuts when cosplayers dress up as Lieutenant Uhura or Vampirella?

    I don’t see sexism in my own stuff, but I realize I could conceivably be blind to that which is painfully apparent to others. I have female readers, though, and those who share their reactions with me aren’t complaining. That gives me hope that I’m doing something right.

    It’s hard for me to comment on the field as a whole because, as I mentioned in a previous post, I simply don’t get to read or watch more than a tiny fraction of what’s out there. But in what I do see, strong female characters are the norm. Passive, helpless women appear rarely, at least in central roles.

    That said, weak women aren’t the only sort of sexist female character a writer could create, and in horror, I often still encounter the succubus, whose evil sexuality destroys men. Come to think of it, I myself wrote a version of her in Blind God’s Bluff. But horror’s a good place for her. Men and women don’t understand each other perfectly, that misunderstanding can create a little anxiety and mistrust in even the best of us, and the purpose of horror (well, one of its purposes) is to stick our fears, major and minor, rational and otherwise, on a stage and take a look at them.

    In any case, in horror or any other genre, we do well to be wary of concluding that the writer who creates the occasional weak or evil female character, or who depicts the occasional act of brutality against women, is a sexist swine propping up all that’s vile and atavistic in our culture. Because there actually are weak and evil women in real life just as there are strong and virtuous ones, and women do sometimes fall victim to brutality. Writers need the freedom to depict such people and situations, or their work will be less than it could be. (Which is not to suggest that a creator’s entire body of work might not convey a pervasive attitude. I’m not trying to get John Norman off the hook.)

    It does seem to me that both the culture of the US and our subculture of fandom are gradually changing for the better. Eventually, we might even reach a point where women simply don’t get harassed, nobody freaks out over skintight costumes, and no one finds it necessary to check our entertainments for sexual political correctness. That would be nice.

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  • Rumors have a way of spreading at conventions, and so the first time I heard that some guy was being abusive toward women at the 2011 World Fantasy Convention, I didn’t pay much attention, figuring it had already been addressed. The second, third and fourth times? I started paying attention.

    By the second day, he had gone from nuisance to threat, and women were hiding in their hotel rooms to avoid him. A friend, knowing my experience in working security and helping resolve harassment issues, asked me to take it up with the WFC Board.

    By Saturday night, the behavior had escalated from threats to ‘accidental’ touching of breasts, attempts to force a kiss, and more. Eventually, I had to call hotel security to get rid of him…and then watch people defend his actions.

    But I’ve already written those reports many times, and there’s no sense in getting bogged down on it now. You can find the link here, if you want to read more.

    This isn’t about one incident, or one guy, or one convention, or one bitch with a bee in her bonnet. It’s about the #1reasonwhy tag on Twitter, talking about sexism in the game industry. That topic would go on to be written up in leading genre sites and national magazines. It’s about the ReaderCon incident, the rape ‘jokes’ on online articles, the claims that ‘nothing’s wrong with us’.

    It’s about how frequently this happens, how little recourse there is, and how damaging it is to the industry at large. It isn’t a problem for a subset of women, or women in one particular industry. It isn’t just about rape or inappropriate touching, this isn’t just some ‘bitch with a bee in her bonnet’ (as one abuser called me).

    It’s about respect, safety, dignity, honesty and pride. It’s a problem for the men, too, because most of them are not rapists or abusers, but they end up being treated with the same caution because there’s no sticker that says ‘danger danger’. It’s a problem for conventions, because it means women are less likely to attend, and men who understand the issue are less likely to attend, and then things just keep going downhill from there.

    But here’s the thing. I’m tired of talking about it. I realized, as I was writing this article, that everything I want to say has already been said in so many ways, at so many places. We’ve raised our voices. We’ve brought attention to it. What more is there to say? We need to stop just talking and start doing something about it.

    An excellent example of this is the Readercon fiasco. A woman was harassed, the ball was dropped, other people came forward, the community demanded a response. The board was replaced, and things simmered down. We all felt very proud of ourselves.

    And then we got reports that he was at WorldCon, helping out behind the stage, and continuing to make women uncomfortable.

    Now, the outcry was the initial key that got this going. We did make good progress, yes. Things were briefly better. But the problem is, it is more damaging when one goes into what should be a safe environment, and isn’t, than when one goes into an environment that is known to be unsafe. It is traumatic to have that safety compromised. It’s like getting into your house and finding a burglar waiting for you. That’s your sanctity, your safe place.

    How many women did we lose from the conventions in question, because of that? How many men? How many people?.

    It is about not just paving the way for the future in terms of new technology and cool products, but in basic human decency, too. Science made amazing breakthroughs last year, but we’re still caught up in trying to figure out if women have the right to feel safe in a social circle. SF needs to decide if it’s a clubhouse or an industry, because it can’t be both ways.

    Fixing this isn’t going to be easy, and it sure won’t be fun. We’re going to have to stir up the bees’ nest, and we will get stung. We’ll lose friends, and people will be hurt, but it has to happen.

    And until it does, we have no right calling ourselves the ‘genre of the future’.

    Jaym Gates is the publicist for Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers of America, Pathfinder Tales and more.

    Her work includes anthologies Rigor Amortis and Broken Time Blues, short stories in Aether Age and M-Brane SF magazine, nonfiction in Fantasy Magazine and Crossed Genres, and blog appearances at Science In My Fiction, Apex Book Company, Booklife Now, and the SFWA blog.

    She can be found on Twitter (@JaymGates), and information about hiring her can be found at jaymgates.com (forgive the mess, it is temporary!).


    Link: http://kotaku.com/5963528/heres-a-devastating-account-of-the-crap-women-in-the-games-business-have-to-deal-with-in-2012

    Link: http://glvalentine.livejournal.com/tag/readercon


    Link: http://jaymgates.com/misc/wfc-2011-creeper/

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  • Yes, this is your author. Inspires a LOT of confidence, doesn't it?

    I was at Readercon last year, but knew nothing of the harassment of Genvieve Valentine until I got home.

    Yeah, the thought of that happening made me mad, as it obviously should. No man should reach adulthood and feel that kind of freedom to harass another human being. Social pressure should have been exerted on that individual from the moment he started exhibiting sings of such aggression.

    Yeah, the thought of it all made me embarrassed on behalf of my other cock-wielding humans. As it should.

    You know what made me feel the most anger and embarrassment, however? Just after the harassment became public knowledge, there were a couple dude-bros — inevitably; dude-bros ruin everything — who opened their goddamn mouths to say something along the lines of, “If only I’d been there, I would’ve done something.”

    Yeah? What would you have done? Defended poor, weak little Genevieve?

    With all due respect (which isn’t much): Fuck you, you failures at life. Put your dicks back in your pants.

    The only time you should be stepping in and helping someone is when their well-being is threatened — when a person is in danger and unable to defend themself. Or when they ask for help. Even then, you’ll probably make the situation worse.

    But here’s the important thing: That scenario has nothing to do with the victim’s sex, the assailant’s sex, or — and here’s the kicker — your sex.

    Yeah, really.

    Genevieve didn’t need any extra help from the penises; if you paid even the slightest attention to her posts on the incident, you’d know she had plenty of supporters with her — supporters she hardly needed, because she handled herself with strength and aplomb.

    #

    I don’t bring this up to go over what has already been gone over, again and again, by others more literate and knowledgeable than I. No, I bring it up because I think such interactions are a good representation of the sophistication of many — far too many — male geeks when confronted with a vagina’d individual:

    BREASTS
    =
    VAGINA / BUTT / LEGS
    =
    ALIEN
    or
    GODDESS
    or
    WHORE
    or
    MOTHER
    = (eventually)
    WOMAN
    or
    GIRL (as their known near-ubiquitously to such men — ahem — boys)
    =
    OH MY GOD IN HEAVEN IT’S A GIRL LOOK
    IT’S BOOBS AND UNDER THERE THERE’S A
    SNATCH AND STARE STARE STARE STARE
    =
    CREEPER SNAPSHOT
    or
    INAPPROPRIATE COME-ON
    or (if he’s one of those shy Nice Guys)
    WILDLY MISOGYNISTIC COMMENT LATER ON WOW FORUM

    I’d love, absolutely love, to have a more positive view, but despite any forward momentum gained (and no one will deny that there’s been some), this last year’s been yet another confirmation that male geek “culture” is producing maladjusted individuals at a disappointingly robust rate. I hardly need to provide links; male geeks behaving badly toward female geeks has been all the rage over the interwebs.

    It’s disappointing as hell, frankly. It’s one of the few things that makes me want to be part of another scene.

    #

    Don’t get me wrong: I’m not immune to my culture, geeky or otherwise. I’m not now claiming — nor would I ever claim — that I always act consistently with my stated beliefs. Sometimes, I think sexist thoughts. Disappointingly often, I say things or make assumptions based on these sexist thoughts. It’s an ongoing struggle to unlearn what my culture has told me about the differences between women and men. It’s even harder to let go of the privilege I’ve been born to just because I’ve got a dick and can grow a (neck)beard.

    Wha--? A woman? But this is MY Christopher Nolan Batman Trilogy forum! I smeared poop on my computer to prevent things like this from happening!

    But I keep on with the struggle.

    Why? Because I don’t want to view women as less than they are, and — far more importantly — I don’t want women to be held back by my (and my bejohnsoned peers’) prejudice.

    If someone as immature, as indoctrinated, as neuronally-slow as me gets this — or, at the very least, sees that the disparity is entirely unjust and harmful and that something should be done about it — why is it so hard for others to make even a rudimentary effort to change their mindsets?

    Why do so many refuse to see that there’s a problem at all? Why do so many insist that fandom is diverse and welcoming, when the limits of this claim are so clearly defined? Why must there be all this fucking butthurt when a righteous volley is launched at the walls of the palace of geekdom? Do male geeks not realize that self-criticism is necessary for growth?

    But maybe these geeks don’t want to grow up. Maybe it’s more urgent to them that they keep the wiminz out of the borders of their ever shrinking kingdoms than reevaluate their prejudice.

    Maybe the right to tell a boob joke without reprisal is just that important to them.

    #

    If any of the above seems too harsh to any of you guys reading, then you can kindly pull your scrotum up over your head, click the Exit button, and go back to living blind, calcifying in a room that reeks of sweat, masturbation, Cheetos, and failure.

    Real people — no, I won’t say real men — face the charges coming at them. They FIX SHIT.

    I’m angry; I think this is clear. The subject enrages me because I fucking love the science fiction, fantasy, and horror folks who have adopted me with open arms. (For years, I was alone in my geekdom, a silent observer. Only in the last three years have a I really come out.) I’m upset because I’m aware that those arms would likely have been a little less open to me if I were a woman (or a person of color, or a non-cisgendered individual, etc.). I’m upset, basically, because there is a situation under our noses that demands action, and so many people are denying it exists.

    I’m pissed because I KEEP TALKING and — moreover — feeling largely justified for doing so. It’s easy to feel you have an audience when you’re whole life you’ve been made to feel important because you’re a man, and white, and…

    Yeah. It’s all a big unfair mess. Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s great that guys like Scott Lynch speak up against bigots, but for all the attention he’s received you’d think he invented cold fusion. Why aren’t more women being celebrated for knocking in the teeth of gross fanboys?

    I’ll tell you why. It’s because the most vocal part of our community is made comfortable by the knowledge that the act of righteousness comes from a verifiably male (and white, and cisgendered) source. This group of geeks gets to pat itself on the back for being so amazingly buttkickingly awesome, all without having to confront the nasty OTHER.

    #

    Ah, shit. Whatever. I’m going to wrap this up, because I’ve just reread what I wrote and become disgusted by my overabundance of words and self-righteousness. I won’t erase it, however, because I think it’s just enough to prove my point that male geeks are still doing too much of the talking where women are concerned in this community.

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  • “Male Feminists: You Don’t Get a Cookie” was the name of a panel I was on at WisCon a few years back.  The ironic title referred to the long standing, but sadly not recognized-enough conceit that “You don’t get to receive a bunch of accolades for just being a decent human being.”  It was a panel about what men can do to be supportive allies in the struggle for gender equity.

    There were a lot of basic progressive 101 ideas that came out of it… Listen, don’t talk over your allies…  Don’t assume your experiences are directly applicable to people who have less agency, or different life opportunities…. Don’t assume that women always need a man’s help or protection, but learn to recognize if and when they do… There were a lot of things discussed that many people SHOULD know but sadly don’t seem to.  And yes, at some point during the panel, someone threw a cookie at me.

    One of the important things for me was that it provided a “safe” place (flying cookies aside) for me to talk about my experience of being a world fantasy judge, during a year when all the judges were male. That judging experience was one of the first times I was front and center for a round of “gender politics” in the SF/Fantasy community. And it directly involved me, in both a professional and fannish capacity. I had a lot of conflicting feelings about that experience, and the panel was good place to talk about it and get feedback from like minded people in the community.

    Sadly, this would not be the last time issues of gender inequity reared their head and forced me to be an active participant. Recently, there was an ugly incident at a convention.  I’m going to speak in general terms, and not name specific people or places (Though I suspect a lot of you will recognize the incident I’m talking about).

    While attending a convention, there was a man who serially engaged in inappropriate behavior. Multiple times Thursday night…. Multiple times Friday night…. And again on Saturday night….  A very proactive (and heroic, IMO) member of the community took it upon herself to document The Creepers actions and bring his behavior to the attention of the con organizers. Any convention is busy, and time is a commodity that nobody has enough of. And this member of the community spent a lot of her time and energy to make sure the convention was safer for everyone.

    During Saturday evening this person… this Hero… approached me, and asked me to come with her, right then, and talk with the convention organizers. I had been very aware of what was going on, and what she was doing. Several of my authors were subjected to The Creepers aggression, and I had been pro-active in putting them, and anybody else who had an experience with The Creeper in touch with The Hero, so she would have even more information to help get The Creeper ejected.

    But she approached me early Saturday night and said, “I need YOU to go talk to the conventions organizers with me. Right now.” At first I was a bit confused. I asked her what she needed me to do. And she said it very simply. “Tell them what you know about the creeper, and his actions.” As her flat, un-dramatic, emotionless tone washed over me, I realized what was going on.  And I was simultaneously horrified and angry and embarrassed.

    This person… this Hero, who was spending her very limited time and energy trying to make the convention a better and safer experience for everybody, was not being taken seriously. Because she was a woman. Because she didn’t have enough social or professional standing to overcome the kneejerk reaction to a woman’s complaints about sexual harassment. It was embarrassing… Humiliating really. To realize that our little genre community… the convention that I had been attending for years… was a very hostile place… a very backwards place. A place where I was listened to and a female colleague was not, because she was a woman.

    I was glad I was able to help. My professional standing and gender encouraged the organizers to take the complaints seriously. And the creeper was ejected soon after I spoke with the organizers.

    And I was so fucking angry that the information had to come from me, or someone like me. There are heroes out there.. this one in particular, and hundreds of others… all working there asses off to make sure that the shared social space is safer for everyone.  They gather information and they present it to people in authority, and if things go really well, actions are taken. And if things don’t go well, best case scenario, the creepers keep harassing. And in just one worst case scenario, the Heroes get tarred and feathered with slurs like “thin skinned” or “troublemaker” or  “bitch” or worse.

    And every time one of these hero’s defamed, or intimidated, or silenced, the SF/F community is very much the poorer for it. Not everybody is in a place or has the resources to be a hero. But most people can stand up for Heroes… to support them… with words and deeds and actions. It may not be easy. Some people may be going against peer pressure, or face professional repercussions for not remaining silent. But, as experience showed me, support is sometimes painfully necessary.

    I was very glad that I was able to help put an end to a possibly dangerous situation at that convention. But I was saddened and frustrated that my voice was needed in that particular instance, because someone was already there, shouting at the top of her lungs. And it wasn’t enough. There’s a lot of work that needs to be done, in terms of gender equity, and as the last few years of internet controversies, and convention incidents have shown, there is a lot of work that needs to be done in the SF/F community.

    This is one of the reasons why I chose this topic for this weeks series of author blogs at Night Bazaar. It’s not an easy thing to talk about. But it needs to be. I have this Night Bazaar Soap Box. And I’m very proud of the authors who are willing to step up on it and add to the conversation. Some people may come out of this conversation looking like a hero. Others may end up with cookies thrown at them. Most will end up somewhere between these extremes.  But we need to have this conversation. Because I want my sister, and my wife, and my daughter, and ALL of my authors, be they female, or queer, or of color, or differently-abled, or whatever, to feel safe in this community – in both its virtual spaces, and in the meat spaces of its conventions.

    I’ll finish by reiterating this one small thing that I took from this convention experience. If you have a voice, or position of privilege or authority that could in some small way help one of the Heroes out there… Be supportive. Be loud and vocal and proactive.

    Be generous with your support of The Heroes who get down in the muck and fight for ideals that you believe in.

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  • Sexual Harassment within the Genre World

    Ugh. Sexism, misogyny, and harassment in the SF/F world. This is a biiig topic. I thought about it a lot and wondered whether I should go the “pretty females don’t count as real geeks” route, or maybe take the “SF glass ceiling” tack, or maybe even tackle the “you don’t love what I love so you don’t count…” jerkwadery. But really, I think one of the biggest, and scariest places someone can get harassed is in person, sexually, at a con. And it’s gonna happen, it has happened, more to girls than guys. There she is, a pretty cosplayer or attractive artist or whatever, enjoying the hell out of the event and then some asshole won’t let go of the notion of “claiming” her with even the strongest of nonverbal or verbal hints.

    It can be a bad problem. I’ve certainly witnessed inappropriateness of all degrees. Attendees at SF Cons often dress up, and lets face it, the majority of SF/F/Comic female characters carry a good deal of sex appeal alongside their weapons. If a woman is into such a character and can carry it off, more power to her. It’s part of the fun of cons. People go there dressed up and to get looked at. But people don’t go to Cons to get harassed, ever.

    Let’s break into a two-part definition of harassment: Action and Intent. Action is touching, pressuring (non-verbal with personal space and verbal with inappropriate hints that could make someone uncomfortable), and propositioning.  Intent is what you mean to gain from said harassment, whether it’s to make her feel objectified or simply less, to feel a surge of power over her, or if it’s to get her into bed, or even if it’s just to gain some repute from being seen in that person’s presence. (For the novices out there: all the above is wrong.)

    I admit it can look like we’re all treading a fine line at cons, even among professionals. As a writer I view myself as an entertainer. When a convention invites me to speak, I feel an obligation to be “on,” to entertain. Because I write for the public, I’m appearing as a public figure (albeit, not a very well-known one). We’d all be lying to ourselves if we denied that sometimes, not always, being a public figure in the entertainment industry involves a degree of sex appeal. I liken my job to that of actor or rock star. When women actors, for instance, walk the red carpet, they generally wear slinky dresses, yeah? Many women singers radiate sexuality from the stage, from their voices to their dancing. (A lot of guy singers do too, obviously.) If she chooses to include sexual attraction in their performance, then she’s chosen to make it part of her job as an entertainer.

    Look, sex sells, and at cons I’m selling myself and my books. I might be dressed sexy for whatever reason–maybe for general public attention, maybe to get my husband’s attention, maybe because it’s part of my persona, maybe cuz I think whatever character I’m dressed up is bad-ass–but clothes or lack thereof on my part simply does not equal “I want you to try your best to get into bed with me.” Like, ever. Any guy (or really, girl, too) who thinks it does is the worst kind of selfish.

    I go to cons to be talked to, to be looked at, to be noticed. If someone approaches me in the bar, or in the corridor, or wants to take my picture after a panel, I consider it part of my job. All of that happens every day when I’m cons. I also accept someone might find me attractive (in all my 45-year-old, mother-of-two, happily-married glory; snort) and charming, just the way I accept plenty of people won’t find me attractive and charming. I also accept that people will approach me. That’s what I’m there for. But I don’t accept that if I’m there to entertain, to be looked at and talked to, that if I have on a slinky top for whatever reason, that it gives anyone the right to touch, pressure, or proposition me with intent. Here’s the deal; you wouldn’t walk up to an actress, even if she had a slinky dress on, and put your hands all over her, right? Would that be appropriate? You wouldn’t walk up to some girl in a bikini at the pool and put your hands on her or proposition her or chase her socially, despite her lack of clothes. (In case you’re wondering, if you do you’re a tool.)

    me at red rocksme at red rocksIt’s my belief that sexual attraction is a part of how human beings relate to each other. There’s often enough hormones floating around cons to fuel a perfume factory. But there’s a difference between Friendly Flirting and Flirting-With-Intent, and women can tell the difference. Society has trained us to it almost since birth. A little harmless flirting served in the form of friendly compliments—well, hell, that’s cool. (A safe topic of conversation with a writer is always books, btw.)  But guys should keep their own intent and action in mind at all times. Trust me, the woman you’re talking to is.

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  • G.J. Koch

    G.J. Koch

    Unlike most authors, I’m not an introvert. I like people, and I like interacting with them in reality, as opposed to only in my head.

    My first career was in marketing. And, unlike most promotions, sales, and marketing people, I loved trade shows. I loved attending them, and I loved working them. Apparently I have Carnival Huckster in my blood, because I enjoy getting people to come over and look at and/or buy something they originally had no interest in. (This has served me remarkably well in my current career, too.)

    Therefore, this should shock no one when I say that I love going to conventions. I go to all kinds — big, medium, and small.

    Why to Con?

    Lots of reasons, really. Exposure, though, is the number 1. My first con as a published author was San Diego Comic-Con. I was on a panel, did a signing, had my books in the bookstore. Not only was it fun, it helped me get onto the local con circuit much faster than I could have without the SDCC Bump. At cons you have an opportunity to reach tens to thousands of readers who, until this very con, didn’t know you or your bookie wookies existed. Hard to beat that kind of exposure. (more…)

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  • Katy Stauber

    A good alternate title or this week’s posts would be:

    How To Party With Introverts

    Having walked amongst the sffy community over the past two years and observed their migratory patterns, I highly recommend going to a sff convention.  It’s fun, educational and air-conditioned, much like being on safari in your local coffee shop.  Only at conventions, you are allowed to prod the wildlife with a stick.  We are… allowed to do that right?  Well, nobody ever complains when I do it, at any rate.  OK, they complain, but they never catch me and take away the stick, so same difference.

    You could totally rock this look at a sffy con. You could.

    At this point, I have been to nine or ten sffy cons.  I too am an introvert so I only have the energy for so many social interactions.  I have a sort of manic-depressive introversion in that I love socializing with other sffy enthusiasts and geeking out to all things science and fiction related, but after a few hours, I get cooked and have to sneak off and curl up in my room with a book.  Sffy cons seem to be entirely populated by introverts so conversations can be a bit uneven as people air out their rusty social skills, remember what it is like to talk in real-time, and then get overwhelmed and have to go have a bit of a lie down.  However, so long as you bear in mind that you and everyone around you is an introvert who just wants to have a nice weekend, the whole thing can be a great experience.

    There are plenty of choices, if you are interested in attending a sffy con.  Here’s how I would generally break down the conventions by size:

    The big conventions: San Diego Comic-Con (over 130,00 of your closest friends) and Atlanta’s Dragoncon (over 45,000 )

    The middles: Worldcon (around 5,000 people) and WFC (around 3,000ish?)

    The smalls: Local conventions like Armadillocon or Aggiecon.  Typically these have a few hundred people at them.

    I had a pair of these. They got stolen at a sffy con. True story.

    Suggestions for getting the most out of your convention experience:

    • Get into it. Wear your Cthulu slippers, your Mork from Ork suspenders and/or your steampunk costume.  You know you have that stuff in your closet.  This is THE place to wear it.  It makes you feel like an insider and there is really nothing more entertaining than sitting around people watching at a convention.  Everyone is looking at you anyway and nobody cares about your age, your weight or any of the mundane stuff.   So put on a show! (more…)
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  • This week we’re talking “Conventions: Big, Small, None at All?” I’m far from an expert here.  Before I got my book deal, I’d been to only a couple of conventions, all local events (though that includes a day trip to WorldCon when it was in Denver back in 2008). Last year – my first year as a published author – I attended a grand total of 3 conventions: WorldCon, World Fantasy, and my local sf con MileHiCon.  

    That was actually a nice sampling of the different types of conventions: WorldCon is fairly large (albeit far smaller than the mega-size media cons like Comic Con) and geared toward fans of written SFF; World Fantasy is limited to something like 800 people, and is a “professional” con, oriented toward those in the publishing business (authors, agents, editors, etc).  MileHiCon is a local convention, small in size and featuring a “family reunion” atmosphere, in which long-time attendees get together and celebrate their passion for all things SFF. 

    I thoroughly enjoyed all three; and my experiences cemented my belief that the best way to approach a con (whether author, aspiring author, or fan) is that you’re there to hang out with like-minded people and have fun.  Anything else (promo, professional contacts, star-struck moments with your favorite authors) is icing on the cake.  I think it’s especially important for new authors to keep this in mind.  Yes, you want to try and get on panels and such. But don’t stress too much about it – because honestly, there are probably far better uses of your money and time if all you’re looking to do is promote your book.  You’ll be far happier and less harried if your highest priority in attending the con is to enjoy spending time with folks who share your passion for SFF and writing.  (And if you’re not passionate about SFF, well, why are you writing it?)  (more…)

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  • "And if you wanna buy me a pint, I ain't gonna stop you."

    by Ross E. Lockhart, Managing Editor

    I’m going to let you in on a big secret: most genre conventions are actually two conventions. There is the convention itself, with its speakers, panels, awards banquets, pitch sessions, and track programming, and then there is that phenomena affectionately known as “bar con,” a movable feast in which the real business of genre publishing—or, at the very least, an awful lot of drinking—gets done.

    I was no stranger to conventions and their unique dynamics before joining Night Shade Books, having attended San Diego Comic-Con—officially and unofficially—for several years (before it moved out of Golden Hall and became a city-sized advertising event for summer movies) and a number of music industry conventions in my former life, but my first literary convention was the 2007 World Fantasy Convention in Saratoga Springs, New York. My Virgil for this Divine Comedy of discovery was Night Shade’s editor-in-chief, Jeremy Lassen, and between Bar Con and the dealers’ room, I met a number of awesome people, and had an incredible time, but didn’t attend a single panel or official convention event.

    Other literary conventions followed. Notable good times were had at the 2008 World Horror Convention in Salt Lake City, Utah, NorWesCon 32 in Seattle, Washington, and the 66th annual World Science Fiction Convention in Denver, Colorado (AKA Denvention3). I didn’t attend a single panel at these, though there was, apparently, singing.

    But lately, I’ve become interested in the more… conventional aspects of conventions. At last year’s World Fantasy Convention in San Diego, I participated in a panel on mermaids alongside author Stina Leicht, and had a wonderful time (though we did head back to the bar afterwards), and I’ve signed up for a handful of panels—to be announced—at this year’s World Horror Convention (which is back in Salt Lake City). If you’re attending, come on by.

    So… Pints or Panels? I recommend them both. If you’re trying to network, meet your favorite authors, or collect autographs, hit the track programming. If, however, you want to see industry professionals in their natural habitat, go to the bar.

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  • I’ve been going to conventions all my life, most of that time as a SF fan, but in the last decade or so as an “industry professional” – however loosely you want to define that term. I don’t know how professional I am, but I’ll take any excuse to get off the computer once or twice a year, leave the house, and remind myself that I’m not a brain in a jar. The advent of social media has been a boon for authors in many ways, but in terms of wasting less time on social media it has been a disaster.

    That’s the first tip I would give prospective author-conventioneers: Don’t get so bogged down with social media that you neglect to fully inhabit the here and now. Maybe you can do both, but for me, going to a convention is a rare and welcome break from suckling that ubiquitous electronic teat; a few precious days of freedom from the soul-stealing engines of Infotania – don’t waste it! The virtual cocoon will still be waiting when you get home.

    Having said that, it can be a weird and uncomfortable transition going from the womb-like peace of your computer desk to the mob scene of a busy convention hall. Let’s face it, very few authors are in this line of work because we love to party. We’re loners. I’m sure that writing in solitude year after year would be unbearable torture for someone who needs a lot of people around to distract them from the pointlessness of their existence. Well, writers often have the opposite problem – to paraphrase Greta Garbo, “Ve vant to be alone.”

    Therefore, my second piece of advice in coping with conventions is to limit your exposure. When you start feeling like you’re either going to collapse or explode, just call it a day. Go back to your hotel room, swim in the pool, take a nap, watch cable and order pizza. Or take a walk around the city. Chances are you’ve never been there before – snag a few dazed-looking fellow authors and hit the town. One of my favorite things to do when I’m in San Diego for Comic-Con is to go out on the half-day fishing boats. It’s a great way to meet interesting, queasy people, and I find that being on the open sea for a few hours is the perfect antidote to the indoor crowd surfing at the Con. Just don’t forget to take a shower.

    There was a time when I could stay in a convention all day, endlessly thrilled by all the costumes and movie paraphernalia (“Look, it’s the STAR WARS issue of American Cinematographer!”), and I still get a jolt of nostalgic pleasure from silly things like being able to sit in the actual DeLorean from BACK TO THE FUTURE. But these days I find that if I spend more than a few hours aimlessly wandering a convention floor, it makes me feel as though I’m being dogpiled by Wookiees. And seeking out authors and artists I admire is often just awkward, since I never know what to say without gushing like a fanboy and embarrassing both of us.

    Being a fan is no longer enough. What I need nowadays is to have a job to do, a panel or a signing to attend, a booth I can sit in with other jaded lugs like me – in other words, some professional reason to be there. There’s nothing I like more than meeting people who share my interests, especially if they’re familiar with my work, but I can’t just randomly mingle and hope to bump into them. That’s a recipe for despair.

    Which brings us to my third suggestion: Get your name on the marquee. In other words, make sure you and your publisher have some kind of author event(s) arranged beforehand so that you don’t have that terrible sense of loitering, of being a creepy hobo lurking amid the throngs of teenage gaming fanatics. If I’m not slated to sit on at least one panel, forget it. And I wouldn’t recommend going to a party unless you have friends there: Nothing is more demoralizing than finding that the only person interested in talking to a random stranger who claims to be an “author” is another random stranger who claims to be an “author” – except that he hasn’t actually written anything in his life, and is looking for someone to co-author his torture-porn novel (“Like SAW, only more extreme!”).

    However, it’s a whole different story if you’re up on a stage with a microphone. That confers upon you the aura of legitimacy, of celebrity, and if you’re lucky enough to be on a panel with people more famous than yourself, all the better. That makes you the contender! You’re the earnest underdog that everyone’s rooting for, just like ROCKY and THE KARATE KID. This is your chance to steal the limelight by making your book sound so damn interesting that nobody can resist it. Turn on the charm! Be funny! Which brings me to my final bit of advice: Bring crib-notes.

    It can seem a bit daunting looking out across a crowded room – you feel so naked with all those eyes watching you. Just don’t panic. Remember that everybody’s naked under their clothes; we’re all equally ridiculous, so there’s no reason to be shy. Just take a deep breath and start talking.

    See? It’s easy.

    Thanks for reading!

    –W.G. Marshall

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