
I’ve met many, many, many SF and fantasy writers. I have been going to science fiction events for more than twenty years. I mentioned in a comment on another post earlier this week that I learned a lot about how to interact with fans — and people in general — from watching professional writers at conventions and other author events. It changed who I am in the “real” world. And I want to say up front that all the science fiction and fantasy writers out there who were nice to me in person, even though they didn’t owe me jack, have completely changed my life. Simple social kindness is important; it changes how people feel — not just about the person being nice to them, but about the world.
In my experience, professional genre writers are, as a class, among the nicest people I’ve ever met. There may be assholes among them, sure, but they are vastly outnumbered by the ones who are kind, smart, and wonderful. I get the sense that the bitching they may do about the crappy vagaries of being a professional writer (and there are some crappy vagaries, to be sure) is outweighed by the gratitude many of them feel for being able to do something they really like every day — whether or not they do it full time. (more…)
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When I was a kid everyone I knew had posters of rock stars on their walls. Not me. Authors were my rock stars. I met Ray Bradbury once when I randomly walked into BookPeople. He was having a signing. I located a copy of Something Wicked This Way Comes and jumped into the line. Of course, being shy, I did everything wrong. Which means I gaped at him like he was some sort of visiting deity and mumbled something about how much he’d influenced me. (It’s possible I drooled.) He, in turn, looked at me as if I were some sort of maniac. I was mortified and decided then and there that I’d never again approach one of my heros. I was fine worshipping from afar. I never wanted my heros to look at me as Ray Bradbury had.
I love meeting my favorite authors, but from a nice, safe remove – like, sitting in the audience of a convention panel, or watching a filmed interview. Better that way for both of us, really. Many introverts retreat into silence when nervous in a social setting. Alas, I am not that kind of introvert. When I’m nervous talking to someone, I blurt out whatever random thoughts enter my head, no matter how idiotic I sound.
Will McIntosh is a Hugo award winner and Nebula finalist whose short stories have appeared in Asimov’s (where he won the 2010 Reader’s Award for short story), Strange Horizons, Science Fiction and Fantasy: Best of the Year, and others. His debut novel, 