It’s always struck me a little odd that people who get so worked up about negative feminine gender roles in pop culture generally have very little to say about negative MASCULINE gender roles in pop culture. Maybe I just don’t get it because I’m a man, and we all know men are dumb–just look at pop culture icons like Homer Simpson, Peter Griffin, pretty much any male sitcom lead, or any commercial with a (male) boss and (female) secretary. Men are barely capable of farting, let alone going to the bathroom by themselves.
But don’t worry, being called ‘dumb’ won’t hurt any man’s feelings, because men don’t have any–as we know from pop culture. Men don’t have feelings, or if they do and they express them, they’re weak and soft. Men are like wrestlers or gangsta rappers, violent and angry and incapable of complex thought or emotion.
No, men are pretty much surface swimmers. They don’t think with their big heads, just the little ones. They’re horndogs enamored of appearance above all and try to sleep with anything warm with a pulse, like James T. Kirk or, I don’t know, pick a Charlie Sheen character.
Now, to borrow a phrase from Great and Glorious Leader Obama, let me be clear–I’m not claiming these stereotypes are baseless, or even always untrue. What I’m unclear about is, why are the people who protest these negative stereotypes always focused on the women’s side? Men are being disrespected, too. Does that even register?
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